They imagine a cold person who feels nothing, wants nothing, needs nothing, and moves through life like a machine. But that is not true detachment. That is emotional deadness. Real detachment is much stronger
The More They Can Read You, the More They Can Control You
Most people believe self-control means suppressing anger. They think emotional discipline is simply the ability to remain quiet when someone insults them,
Be a paradox — ruthless and kind, disciplined and untamed, humble and proud, dangerous and gentle, skeptical and faithful, proletarian and aristocratic, cold in judgment and warm in affection, patient in strategy and decisive in action
Dangerous people rarely look dangerous. They do not enter your life looking evil. They enter looking charming. Misunderstood. Funny. Helpful. Innocent. Wounded….
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